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Delight Yourself in the Lord: This Changed My Life

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Here’s how to delight yourself in the Lord while waiting on that desire in your heart that hasn’t yet materialized. Learn what it means and discover some great verses on delighting in God.


What are the desires in your heart? That certain one that you are still waiting on to come to fruition? You’ve probably asked God when is it going to happen? How is it going to happen?

It all so frustrating, right?

When I was in a long season of waiting, specifically to be married, the Lord provided a few verses that were an anchor for my spirit. He began with the foundational verse for that season, which opens up a wonderful promise:

Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4 NKJV

Why Our Focus Matters

We can easily make the desires of our heart an idol when our focus is on what we want, instead of pleasing God. It brings a weariness to our spirit.

Focus on this phrase:

Delight yourself in the Lord.

So what does it mean to delight yourself in the Lord? In delighting yourself in the Lord, it takes your focus off of what you’re waiting for and places it back on the Lord. Waiting brings strength, not weariness, if you are waiting on the Lord (Isaiah 40:31).

The key is choosing to live yielded to God, and in this case, delighting yourself in the Lord.

How It Works

I remember wanting to get married more than anything else in life. Every waking thought was about the latest guy I was enamored with. I found Psalm 37:4 one day and “held it over God’s head” as my ticket to get what I wanted: my husband—now.

He gently replied, “That’s not how it works, Daughter.”

What I was thinking was, Okay, God, fine. But I’m pretty sure You keep Your promises.

I’m fairly certain I was still trying to manipulate Him. But I wanted to get to the bottom of it. So I prayed:

“If that’s not how it works, then how does it?”

There was no immediate reply, but He did give me an immediate response. I sensed His sweet presence near me when I would think about a guy.

That verse about God being jealous of our love (2 Corinthians 11:2)? Yeah, He was reminding me of His continual pursuit of me. And the realization of that made my heart sing!

I decided to look up verses on delighting in the Lord and ones that talked about who He delighted in. That was probably the Holy Spirit giving me that idea.

With new fervency for those verses, and a little more falling in love with the Lord, I copied each one into my journal. I started praying them over my life and asked God to help them become a part of me.

He answered that prayer, and one day I was startled to realize I had been thinking about God more than a guy! I smiled and people around me thought I was in love with a man when really my heart was just captivated with my Love.

How to Delight Yourself in the Lord

The word delight is a verb. It is an action of taking great pleasure in God, to please Him or to be His pleasure.

When a man’s heart is tender toward a woman, in wooing her he will want what he is, does and says to be pleasing to the woman; he is delighting himself in her. In the same way, you can be God’s pleasure.

The Bible talks about many ways to delight yourself in the Lord (see below).

It’s not about a list to follow to make sure we are being righteous, but we delight in Him because we love Him. This is a specific way to live yielded to God.

As you dive into the verses below that describe ways to delight yourself in the Lord, and let them become a part of your life, God will begin to transform your heart. The result is that you will want to give your heart fully to Him and delight yourself in Him where you didn’t before.

As you dive into the verses below that describe ways to delight yourself in the Lord, and let them become a part of your life, God will begin to transform your heart.Click to Tweet

Ways to Delight Yourself in the Lord

It doesn’t matter what season of waiting you are enduring. God will take that time to draw you closer to Himself. The following verses can help open your eyes to delight in Him, your heart to live yielded to Him — and ultimately thrive in Christ. Here are some biblical ways to delight in God:

Doing His Will

I delight to do Your will, O my God, And Your law is within my heart. Psalm 40:8 NKJV

Meditating on Scriptures

Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, Nor stands in the path of sinners, Nor sits in the seat of the scornful; But his delight is in the law of the Lord, And in His law he meditates day and night. Psalm 1:1-2 NKJV

Having an Honest Heart

Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, But those who deal truthfully are His delight. Proverbs 12:22 NKJV

Obedience

So Samuel said: Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, As in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, And to heed than the fat of rams. 1 Samuel 15:22 NKJV

Prayer

The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination to the Lord, But the prayer of the upright is His delight. Proverbs 15:8 NKJV

Being All About His Word

I will delight myself in Your statutes; I will not forget Your word. Your testimonies also are my delight And my counselors. Make me walk in the path of Your commandments, For I delight in it. And I will delight myself in Your commandments, Which I love. Let Your tender mercies come to me, that I may live; For Your law is my delight. Psalm 119:16, 24, 35, 47, 77 NKJV

A New Heart Cry

When I learned to delight myself in the Lord, I thought about how my heart looked to God more than how my hair looked for a guy. That was a huge change in my heart! He did that in me!

When you catch onto this concept, your heart cry becomes, “Yes, I want the desires of my heart, but I want You even more than those desires.”

And through the process of delighting yourself in the Lord, you see that He delights in you! You have His whole heart and will always have His love!

Are you in a season of waiting?  Delight yourself in the Lord. Look up these scriptures in your Bible and begin to familiarize yourself with them. Highlight them, write them in your journal, pray them, but mostly get them in your heart! And He will give you the desires of your heart!

When I learned to delight myself in the Lord, I thought about how my heart looked to God more than how my hair looked for a guy.Click to Tweet

Need more encouragement while in a season of waiting? Check these out:

  • 5 Truths Your Season of Waiting Might Tell You
  • The Smart Response When There’s Delay
  • When You Want to Hear from God, but…Crickets

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  1. Melanie Siewert says

    December 6, 2011 at 8:10 am

    Girl, I’m there. Thanks for the timely word. Blessings to you!!!!

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    • kellyrbaker says

      December 6, 2011 at 8:17 am

      Your welcome. Blessings to you as well!

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    • Donya says

      February 11, 2021 at 12:45 pm

      This was Awesome thank you

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  2. Charlotte Findley says

    December 6, 2011 at 1:01 pm

    Kelly, thank you for reminding us to delight ourselves in the Lord. During this hurried season it is truly a time when we should concentrate on delighting ourselves in Him.

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    • kellyrbaker says

      December 6, 2011 at 1:28 pm

      That’s true!

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      • yata elizabeth sheyen says

        February 26, 2021 at 7:30 am

        thank you for reminding me to delight in the lord first . i am so encourage with this right top .i was just praying to day that God should grant to me the desires of my heart then the spirit of God took me to this page.thanks again.

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  3. Michele says

    April 28, 2012 at 12:59 am

    Thank you so much for posting this. All too often, I so easily delight in my free time, which usually leads to me feeling stressed out because I don’t have enough of it. But I want the Lord to be my delight. Reading Psalm 1 in my devotional time, I took particular notice that delighting in God is connected to delighting in his law, something that I intend to explore more fully. Your thoughts have given me some food for thought.

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    • KellySinging says

      April 30, 2012 at 4:47 pm

      Thanks for stopping by. I’m glad it was helpful!

      Reply
    • Kesh says

      November 18, 2016 at 1:02 pm

      Beautiful! I often like looking up Words in Hebrew for deeper meaning too, this read was so encouraging thanking Abba for you.

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      • KellyRBaker says

        November 21, 2016 at 3:29 pm

        Hi, Kesh! I’m so glad this was encouraging to you! Praying you stay nourished and thriving this week!

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  4. phina says

    August 6, 2013 at 7:58 am

    thanks kelly, really touch with this message, i am asking God to give me the grace to delight in him more than my personal desire or pleasure.

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  5. Prince says

    October 9, 2013 at 3:07 am

    Thank you so much kelly. Your message has helped me

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  6. Steve says

    November 14, 2013 at 6:07 pm

    Great post….the rationale being as we delight in him….our desires become more in line with his will for us, rather than our will for us

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  7. Halimah says

    December 9, 2013 at 2:39 am

    Thank you so much but one question I have is did you get married? And were you praying for a husband. Did you just ask God or did you just meditate on the scriptures you listed?

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  8. shani says

    December 19, 2013 at 10:34 pm

    this was amazing Thank you!!

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  9. Jolandi says

    January 16, 2014 at 3:49 am

    Thank you very much for this word. I find it very helpful. ive been struggling to understand this scripture but now I have a clear view on what to do. Thank you VERY, VERY much! God bless you and continue the good work.

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  10. Jonathan says

    January 21, 2014 at 1:11 am

    Not only do the verses you have provided given me insight, into this area of my life but also coming from a sister in Christ it reminds me that I am not terminally unique and that fellowship (even online) can be a blessin gto someone enduring some trials or hardships. Thanks Kelly.

    Reply
  11. agbarajo ikhowa says

    January 30, 2014 at 9:31 pm

    more post

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  12. Tina Payton says

    August 20, 2014 at 11:02 pm

    Thank you for Defining the word Delight I have understanding of DELIGHT be blessed.

    Reply
    • Conrad says

      December 17, 2020 at 1:39 pm

      This is an awesome teaching, I have a great perspective plus your teaching is practical

      Reply
      • kellyrbaker says

        December 18, 2020 at 9:01 am

        Thanks for reading, Conrad! So glad you stopped by. 🙂

        Reply
  13. Ricardo Redeross says

    September 30, 2014 at 11:38 pm

    thank you for this devotion Kelly! ive meditating on what it means to really delight myself in our Lord, as I am in a time of waiting. And our Lord directed me here. This devotion had truly blessed abs helped me today! I’ve bookmarked it to re-read. thanks again sister!

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    • Kelly says

      October 1, 2014 at 9:25 pm

      Thanks, so pleased that it blessed!

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  14. Brittany smith says

    November 20, 2014 at 9:54 pm

    Thank you very much for giving me more understanding of ways I can delight myself in The Lord..

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  15. Inee says

    December 2, 2014 at 7:51 pm

    Sometimes we just need a handle, to simplify the word in our everyday lives. Waiting becomes much easier when we focus on God, and not the situation. Delighting, in the above mention ways, brings peace. Thanks for such an uplifting article.

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    • Kelly says

      December 2, 2014 at 8:09 pm

      Amen.

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      Reply
  16. Jessica says

    December 11, 2014 at 9:42 am

    Wow ! I needed to read this today. Thanks for posting this

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    • Kelly says

      December 11, 2014 at 2:42 pm

      Thanks for reading Jessica! God bless you!

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      Reply
  17. Rita Coker says

    April 15, 2016 at 10:38 pm

    This is exactly what one must do when they are waiting! Delight ourselves in the Lord this is the most happiest moment for me! Even before I knew it what I was waiting on had come and it even seem like it wasn’t a wait at all! There is no other joy, peace and assurance that you could do as the devil trys to make you doubt our Saviour! God’s word kept me through the whole process because I made a point to STAY in His word!! Oh, oh what a friend we have in Jesus!

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    • KellyRBaker says

      April 16, 2016 at 9:39 am

      Amen! Thanks for sharing, Rita.

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  18. Meghan says

    November 6, 2017 at 4:37 pm

    Oh yes. I love how you put it, to put our focus back on him. Which means at some point we took it off of him and that is where we go wrong. I know we won’t live it out perfectly, but keeping our eyes on HIM is what will keep our hearts content in the waiting.

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    • kellyrbaker says

      November 7, 2017 at 11:24 am

      Truth! And the enemy will vie for our attention daily. Keeping these verses forfront is helpful. Blessings, friend!

      Reply
  19. Rose says

    February 11, 2020 at 1:22 am

    I am just encouraged and empowered by your sharing. Thank you and may God bless your ministry

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    • kellyrbaker says

      February 12, 2020 at 9:04 pm

      You’re welcome, Rose, and God bless you, too!

      Reply
  20. Vanessa says

    May 15, 2020 at 1:38 pm

    Thank you for explaining how to delight yourself in the Lord in so much depth and giving an example of your life and how you sought to change. God bless you for sharing

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    • kellyrbaker says

      May 17, 2020 at 1:04 pm

      My pleasure, Vanessa! Thanks for reading!

      Reply
  21. A P says

    June 20, 2020 at 2:02 pm

    Thank you Kelly for defining how to delight in God. The statement “ when a man’s heart is tender …. was the pearl I was looking for. Your article has become a blessing in my life. God bless

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    • kellyrbaker says

      June 20, 2020 at 4:54 pm

      I’m glad it was helpful to you, A P! Saying a prayer for you right now as you delight yourself in the Lord!

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  22. Jared Alushula says

    November 5, 2020 at 3:08 am

    Great read there about delighting yourself in the Lord. God bless you Kelly. Pastor Jared Alushula from Kenya.

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    • kellyrbaker says

      November 15, 2020 at 4:40 pm

      Blessings to you, Jared! Thanks for reading!

      Reply
  23. Samuel Nketiah says

    November 12, 2020 at 12:30 pm

    Thank you so much Mrs Kelly for your insights .God bless you . I am really blessed by your insights

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    • kellyrbaker says

      November 15, 2020 at 4:41 pm

      You’re welcome, Samuel. Glad to have you visit!

      Reply
  24. Opeyemi Adebiyi says

    November 22, 2020 at 4:35 am

    Thank you for the insight Kelly!
    I’ve been staring at this scripture for a while now and a thought crossed my mind: how do I delight myself in Him again?…
    Your write up was very explicit.

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    • kellyrbaker says

      December 1, 2020 at 3:18 pm

      So glad it was helpful! Thanks for reading. 🙂

      Reply
  25. Rosemary says

    December 15, 2020 at 3:31 pm

    God bless you, this is very much timely

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    • kellyrbaker says

      December 18, 2020 at 8:58 am

      God bless you too, Rosemary! I love how God speaks to us at just the right time. 🙂

      Reply
  26. Mije says

    December 21, 2020 at 3:17 pm

    Li was looking for something about ‘delighting the Lord’ for my daughter. She is struggling with feeling like she’s a failure in spite of His great provision for her. Came across this article, and it really spoke to me! I’ve shared it with her. Thanks, Kelly! Spot on.

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    • kellyrbaker says

      December 28, 2020 at 1:23 pm

      I will pray for her! Thanks for sharing it with her. So glad you stopped by!

      Reply
  27. Oyin says

    December 28, 2020 at 2:24 am

    Thank you so much for the article.Very well said. A burden to search more on delighting the Lord and stumbled on your article, which was just on point for me as I journey into the New year.

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    • kellyrbaker says

      December 28, 2020 at 1:26 pm

      So glad to hear that, Oyin! Praying for you right now!

      Reply
  28. Tonya Marie says

    January 10, 2021 at 7:43 am

    This was very helpful, thanks

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    • kellyrbaker says

      January 17, 2021 at 4:29 pm

      You’re welcome, Tonya!

      Reply
  29. Tumu S Newell says

    January 12, 2021 at 11:50 pm

    This was RIGHT ON TIME.

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    • kellyrbaker says

      January 17, 2021 at 4:29 pm

      God likes to do that, doesn’t He? 😉

      Reply
  30. Antonio Liberta says

    January 18, 2021 at 7:06 pm

    I had a venting and argument session with God last week. I know He just shook His head and just laughed at my voicing out to Him. Anyway, I had a dream last night and all I saw and heard was” Delight yourself in the Lord ” I am still i shocked that God actually showed me this in my dream. Now im looking everything up to actually know what the scripture really means. That’s how I landed here. Great advise!!!

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    • kellyrbaker says

      January 25, 2021 at 8:32 pm

      Wow, that is so cool! God is really getting your attention. So glad you landed here, Antonio! 🙂

      Reply
  31. Angel says

    January 27, 2021 at 11:26 pm

    Thank you very much for sharing, the breaking down of the scripture made a huge difference. I like the practical way you have share it. Two weeks ago during fasting, I dreamed about this very scripture Psalms 37:4. It has been in my heart to search in depth what it means to delight oneself in the Lord, that’s how l landed here. Again, thank you for your outstanding gift, May the Lord keep on blessing your ministry.

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    • kellyrbaker says

      February 10, 2021 at 1:26 pm

      It sounds like God is certainly drawing you closer to Him! I’m so glad you visited and hope you will visit again, Angel!

      Reply
  32. Olu O. says

    February 5, 2021 at 4:58 am

    I thank the Lord for your life. And may He continue to use you mightily, in the name of Jesus. Amen

    Reply
    • kellyrbaker says

      February 10, 2021 at 1:27 pm

      Aww thanks so much! God bless you real good, Olu!

      Reply
  33. Damaris Jebiwott says

    February 17, 2021 at 8:30 pm

    Wow. I bless the Lord for you. I received a conviction about delighting myself in Gods ways this morning, but i didn’t know the scriptures where delight is highlighted. So I was researching and I thank God I landed on your page. I have learnt more than enough information about delighting myself in the Lord. Thanks for the Insightful exposition on Delighting ourselves in the Lord. Very Impactful, God bless You.

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  34. Josiah jackson says

    February 28, 2021 at 6:12 pm

    Hey did you ever get Married and how do I get god to help me get my degree in high-school if I’m not smart enough I’m really far behind on work and I’m worried that I’m not going to pass and school is almost over

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    • kellyrbaker says

      March 3, 2021 at 6:15 pm

      Hi Josiah, thanks for reading. Yes, I got married. 🙂 To answer your question, God says several places that He is our strength and help (see https://kellyrbaker.com/god-help-me-verses-prove-god-has-your-back/ for some verses and encouragement on that). And then work hard in school. Trust Him with this because He cares about every detail of your life. Praying for you!

      Reply

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