In this post, I share how to delight yourself in the Lord. We all have desires in our heart. Some of us are still waiting on those desires to come to fruition. But how?
When I was in a long season of waiting, specifically to be married, the Lord provided a few verses that were an anchor for my spirit. He began with the foundational verse for that season, which opens up a wonderful promise:
Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4 NKJV
Why Our Focus Matters
We can easily make the desires of our heart an idol when our focus is on what we want, instead of pleasing God. It brings a weariness to our spirit.
Focus on this phrase:
Delight yourself in the Lord.
In delighting ourselves in the Lord, it takes our focus off of what we are waiting for and places it back on the Lord. Waiting brings strength, not weariness, if we are waiting on the Lord. (Isaiah 40:31)
The key is delighting ourselves in the Lord.
I remember wanting to get married more than anything else in life. Every waking thought was about the latest guy I was enamored with. I found Psalm 37:4 one day and “held it over God’s head” as my ticket to get what I wanted: my husband—now.
He gently replied, “That’s not how it works, Daughter.”
What I was thinking was, Okay, God, fine. But I’m pretty sure You keep Your promises.
I’m fairly certain I was still trying to manipulate Him. But I wanted to get to the bottom of it. So I prayed:
“If that’s not how it works, then how does it?”
There was no immediate reply, but He did give me an immediate response. I sensed His sweet presence near me when I would think about a guy.
That verse about God being jealous of our love (2 Corinthians 11:2)? Yeah, He was reminding me of His continual pursuit of me. And the realization of that made my heart sing.
I decided to look up verses on delighting in the Lord and ones that talked about who He delighted in. That was probably the Holy Spirit giving me that idea.
With new fervency for those verses, and a little more falling in love with the Lord, I copied each one into my journal. I started praying them over my life and asked God to help them become a part of me.
He answered that prayer, and one day I was startled to realize I had been thinking about God more than a guy! I smiled and people around me thought I was in love with a man when really my heart was just captivated with my Love.
How to Delight Yourself in the Lord
The word delight is a verb. It is an action of taking great pleasure in God, to please Him or to be His pleasure.
When a man’s heart is tender toward a woman, in wooing her he will want what he is, does and says to be pleasing to the woman; he is delighting himself in her. In the same way, we can be God’s pleasure.
The Bible talks about many ways to delight ourselves in the Lord (see below).
It’s not about a list to follow to make sure we are being righteous, but we delight in Him because we love Him.
As we dive into the verses below that describe ways to delight yourself in the Lord, God transforms our hearts. The result is that we will want to give our hearts fully unto Him and delight ourselves in Him where we didn’t before.
Ways to Delight Yourself in the Lord
It doesn’t matter what season of waiting we are enduring. God will take that time to draw us closer to Himself. The following verses can help open our eyes and heart to delight in Him—and ultimately thrive in Christ.
Doing His Will
I delight to do Your will, O my God, And Your law is within my heart. Psalm 40:8 NKJV
Meditating on Scriptures
Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, Nor stands in the path of sinners, Nor sits in the seat of the scornful; But his delight is in the law of the Lord, And in His law he meditates day and night. Psalm 1:1-2 NKJV
Having an Honest Heart
Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, But those who deal truthfully are His delight. Proverbs 12:22 NKJV
So Samuel said: Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, As in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, And to heed than the fat of rams. 1 Samuel 15:22 NKJV
The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination to the Lord, But the prayer of the upright is His delight. Proverbs 15:8 NKJV
Being All About His Word
I will delight myself in Your statutes; I will not forget Your word. Your testimonies also are my delight And my counselors. Make me walk in the path of Your commandments, For I delight in it. And I will delight myself in Your commandments, Which I love. Let Your tender mercies come to me, that I may live; For Your law is my delight. Psalm 119:16, 24, 35, 47, 77 NKJV
A New Heart Cry
When I learned to delight myself in the Lord, I thought about how my heart looked to God more than how my hair looked for a guy.
When we catch onto this concept, our heart cry becomes, “Yes, I want the desires of my heart, but I want You even more than those desires.”
And through the process of delighting ourselves in the Lord, we see that He delights in us! We have His whole heart and will always have His love!When I learned to delight myself in the Lord, I thought about how my heart looked to God more than how my hair looked for a guy.
Are you in a season of waiting? Delight yourself in the Lord. Look up these scriptures in your Bible and begin to familiarize yourself with them. Highlight them, write them in your journal, pray them, but mostly get them in your heart! And He will give you the desires of your heart!