Delay is like the narrow neck of the hourglass. It’s an inevitable part of life. Instead of allowing disappointment to drag you down, there are ways to be productive while waiting. They are the smart response when there’s delay.

The Smart Response When There’s Delay

Are you waiting for something?

They say the anticipation leading up to an event can be more exciting than the actual event. That excitement is like the height of a mountain. And then sometimes delay spoils what you are looking forward to. And disappointment drags you down.

Maybe that’s why the dip of discouragement feels like such a low. It feels like the opposite of that mountain high.

Some people start whining to God when their desire is detained. I never do that.

Nope. Never!


Okay, okay! I admit; I do complain sometimes.

Being content is difficult. Paul said in Philippians 4:11 that he’s learned to be content no matter what situation he’s in, but that verse and I don’t seem to be getting along lately. I’m working on it.

I see others getting their chance and I want a green light, too. My heart will begin to whine, I just want—and I’ll try to stop myself right there and correct where that was going.

Complaining is a hindrance. Just ask those wilderness-wandering Israelites.

So I say be smart and keep moving forward when life impedes your goals.

How is one supposed to keep moving forward when there’s delay?

One night the Holy Spirit answered that exact question. Here’s what I learned:

4 Ways to Be Productive while Waiting  


1. Worship through it. I love the phrase “pour out your heart” from Psalm 62:8 (see below). That means you can be real with God. He knows how you’re feeling anyway. He is a safe place—a refuge, just like the verse says:

Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us. Selah Psalm 62:8, ESV

Put on some worship music and let your emotions splash into God’s lap. Cry it out! Crying releases what is pent up inside. Lay your disappointments at His feet in surrender. Then after you’ve poured out your heart, and you’re feeling empty, start worshipping Him because He is your king. Because you love Him. He will not leave you disappointed! He brings peace and encouragement in place of disappointment.

2. Ask questions. “Why is this happening to me?” “Why can’t I just have _____?” “Why does it seem like I’m the only one who isn’t getting to ____?” I hear myself asking these “why me?” type questions, and I realize they’re not the right kind to be asking! See, a major key to waiting is preparation. Instead, ask “What do you want me to specifically do to prepare?” Asking God for directions will channel your energy to having a proactive focus. Ask Him for wisdom (James 1:5) and more discernment. You need wisdom and direction in areas that will help you to prepare for whatever you’re waiting for.

3. Invest your time in preparation. One of God’s promises is found in Matthew 7:7 (ESV), “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.” God doesn’t leave us wondering; when we spend time seeking Him, He gives directions. Even if it’s one detail at a time, He comes through on His promise. Now do what He lays on your heart both practically and spiritually. Think of Noah’s call to build the ark. God gave him many directions about how to build the ark, about the animals, and about food for the people and animals. It took many years putting everything into place. Embrace the vicissitudes of the season. The time isn’t wasted. You are simply preparing for what’s ahead.

4. Trust God. I know this is easier said than done so I give you permission to talk to yourself. Yep! Tell yourself you trust God. Out loud. Go ahead, say it. It makes a difference. You are telling your heart what is true, and you are also letting God be in control. There is power in words. Pray some verses that remind you to trust Him. It makes the trusting easier. You can trust Him because He’s holding your life in His hands. “The course of my life is in Your power.” Psalm 31:15a HCSB That’s good to know!

Delay is like the bottleneck of the hourglass. It’s an inevitable part of life. Instead of allowing disappointment to drag you down, there are ways to be productive while waiting. They are the smart response when there’s delay.

Notice these four actions spell an acrostic for the word wait:

W…worship through it

A…ask questions

I…invest your time in preparation

T…trust God

They are a wonderful way to take action while waiting.

Delay is like the narrow neck of an hourglass. It’s an inevitable part of life.

But there is beauty in waiting; God intends this period to be an encouragement to us.

Wait for the LORD; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the LORD! Psalm 27:14, ESV

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27 thoughts on “The Smart Response When There’s Delay

  1. I never thought of the waiting period as a time God intends for encouragement. That idea brings some instant calm delight. And it kind of makes me *want* to have to be patient. Thanks for sharing, Kelly. Every time I come to your page I read something I’m pretty sure I needed to read. 😊

  2. Great tips, Kelly! I’m waiting in a couple areas of my life right now. I’m going to employ your 4 steps today!! Blessings!

    • Hi, Rosanna! When I first started realizing this, it was when I wanted to get married but God showed me I wasn’t ready. Well, I wanted to speed things up. So I started being more aware of my character and allowing God to work changes in me. And of course, I continued to learn more about cooking and homemaking, etc.

  3. Kelly, one of the best ways for me to thrive in the waiting is to invest my time. Many times I thought I was just spinning my wheels, and hindsight showed me God was using the investing in ways I could have never known. It seems waiting is a common theme for many of us these days.

    • Great to see you here again, Rachel! Yes, I guess there is a lot to experience in the waiting. As I go through the preparations I see why He is saying wait. His wisdom supersedes mine, that’s for sure!

  4. My friend, you’ve done it again! I love love love this!! Lately I feel like my contentment needs a little working out while I wait because if I can’t be content where I am now, how will I be able to appreciate the blessing of more? And just this morning I was hit with the lack of worship and greeting God in my prayers before getting into my laundry list of wants so your post is just one more confirming witness- God’s so good like that! 🙂 Blessings on a beautiful week for you Kelly! Happy to be waiting with you for whatever comes next! ♥♥

    • Ooooh, I love confirmations! And what you said was good, “if I can’t be content where I am now, how will I be able to appreciate the blessing of more?” Thanks for being here, Heather! 🙂

  5. aaaagggghhhhhh…. I have only gotten to #1.. and, yes, that is where I am in my waiting to find another house to live in. My grumbling is better, though, because no matter what I say, I always bring it back around to God, His faithfulness, love, mercy. Ok… ready for #2… whew…. Love you Kelly .. you always tell it like it is, even when it hurts, not just me, but you too…. thanks.

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