Proverbs 31 Woman: Problem or Paradise?

(I really don’t want to publish this post. I want to write all encouraging messages and be likable. But the Lord is laying on my heart to say this, so I am being obedient. Please don’t hate me at the end!) 

File Apr 08, 5 51 06 PMHave you ever heard someone be critical of the Proverbs 31 woman?

“I cannot, nor will not measure up to the attributes of this fictitious woman! God’s grace is enough for me!”

I’ve never heard of someone doing all that is on “her” list of accomplishments, but that isn’t the point. The true objective is to not quench the Spirit.

If we are embracing our human qualities with such a tight grip that we never allow God to work in us, then there something wrong. If the Holy Spirit comes knocking on the door of your heart, and says I want you to clean your home, or prompts you to take on a new skill, be careful that you do not quench the Spirit.

Quench not the Spirit. 1 Thessalonians 5:19

The Holy Spirit is often represented with the symbol of fire. If you have lit a candle, and blow it out, then you have quenched the flame. In the same way, if you feel that prompting from the Holy Spirit, and you say, “No, I’m not going to do that because God’s grace covers my messy areas; I have no need to improve,” then you have quenched the Spirit.

4 Examples 

Various truths can be pulled from any one passage in the Bible. I love it when God reveals new revelation from a familiar story. At the same time, the principles of God aren’t a buffet. 😉 Let’s be a good “Berean” (Acts 17:10-11) to see if what I’m saying truly lines up with the Word of God.

1. Daniel is one who was known for having an excellent spirit (Daniel 5:12, 6:3). His life was able to be used for God’s glory.

2. The Proverbs 31 woman. Although she is figurative in nature, we can still look at her example of diligence to responsibilities.

3. The rich ruler. Jesus didn’t say to him, “My grace is sufficient for you. There’s nothing more you need to do.” See, the rich ruler had it right in all areas except for one. He still lacked one thing, and Jesus pointed it out to him (Luke 18:18-23).

4. The Bride of Christ is being made spotless and without wrinkle before Jesus comes back. (Ephesians 5:27; 2 Peter 3:14)

We can be driven by perfectionism, or loving God.

Where God’s Grace Enters

Am I saying that if we don’t do everything that the Proverbs 31 woman does then we won’t go to heaven? Not at all.

As far as the Proverbs 31 woman goes, for example, she is able to sew. I tried taking lessons for that when I was in school, and couldn’t really make a go of it. Also, she is able to have a garden. I have been known to kill many, many plants.

If one day, the Holy Spirit impresses upon me to take up the skill again, or another one, then I know I would need to do so. It would be at that moment His grace would come in and be sufficient for me. I would be able to master the skill because of His grace.

Let’s choose not to measure ourselves against attaining perfectionism, but obeying God because we love Him and want to give Him our best.

Is there an area you have ever quenched the Spirit? Tell us about it in the comments below. Where do you see God’s grace at work in your life now?

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2 thoughts on “Proverbs 31 Woman: Problem or Paradise?

  1. To stop smoking….I know I can do anything through Christ who strengthens me …but I’m still reluctant but NOW I am really going to stop. Thanks for this God sent message.

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